I've been "playing" with this smart little thing for a few months and it has brought me enhanced strength, ease and pleasure in my erotic center. It was hard for me to remember to do my Kegel's...until I found this. Now it's a pleasure. Pelvic health is essential for sexual health, regardless of sex or gender. This toy is if for vaginas though. Read my full review here.

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*Disclaimer: I obviously like this thing very much. So I reached out to the company and they offered me a discount code (below) to send to my readers. This is my first time ever doing this—they do send me a token reward for each sale… while you get a discount. Seems like a double win. :-)

Visit Perifit.co

Use coupon code JESSICACHILDS for 25% off! 

I've been "playing" with this smart little thing for a few months and it has brought me enhanced strength, ease and pleasure in my erotic center. It was hard for me to remember to do my Kegel's...until I found this. Now it's a pleasure. Pelvic health is essential for sexual health, regardless of sex or gender. This toy is if for vaginas though. Read my full review here.

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*Disclaimer: I obviously like this thing very much. So I reached out to the company and they offered me a discount code (below) to send to my readers. This is my first time ever doing this—they do send me a token reward for each sale… while you get a discount. Seems like a double win. :-)

Visit Perifit.co

Use coupon code JESSICACHILDS for 25% off! 

Although it is a fun and hot fantasy to play with, the "perfect partner" narrative is a myth. There is no one human that will be capable of meeting 100% of your needs. To help you understand your needs and have more agency with them, this resource from the relationship anarchy field is a good start. This intuitive diagram helps us understand what we need and how we match up with others in their needs and capacities. From there, we can talk about how to get more of what we need.

This is the number one set of skills folx need to have when navigating sex and relationships with joy, ease and pleasure. Everything from ramping up what feels good to working through the things that don't feel so good begins with the skills laid out in Somatica's 9 Steps of Repair. 

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To me, being able to do repair is emotional freedom in connection with others. It is also juicy delight. And also intimacy. And also balm for painful days.

I'm putting this here as a reference for new and existing clients. Feel free to come back and fill this out periodically as our work together changes.

At any time, you are welcome to send me anonymous feedback about my work and our time together. My aim is to make the world a sexier, more intimately connected and safe place to be a human. Improve me!